However, just like dicks having different shapes, sizes, angles, etc. There are different parts that go by different names. The clitoris is another part. Just like a penis, when a woman is aroused, her glans clitoris engorges. They swell and get bigger!
If your clitoris is covered by a thicker hood, you may have to apply more direct pressure in order to reach orgasm. You may also be able to gently draw back your clitoral hood so that you can more directly stimulate your clitoris. I find that using a high-speed vibrator , such as a Hitachi wand, works best.
I am 50 and a lesbian. I have had a pretty active sex life for the last 30 years, including a couple of long-term relationships. We have amazing sexual chemistry—by far the best I have experienced. For the last two years, I have noticed that my clitoris is getting bigger.